Marriage of rules - Shim Yun Hui (심윤희)

We need rules in order to get married? Love alone is not going to be married? What it is not needed in order to get married?

Source :사진=AP 뉴시스 http://www.starseoultv.com/news/articleView.html?idxno=323558

 

INTRO.

        The beginning of a new roost : Marriage

 

Human beings, was born at home, makes his house back grew up. And the 'marriage' in the process. The marriage is necessary to many things. Love, wedding halls, dresses and tuxedos, the permission of their parents and so on ...

Various marriage rules exist for each country. In particular it must be some of the conditions are met for marriage in Korea. (A little sad but love is not enough.) From the past to the present, I wonder in South Korea there has been what conditions necessary for marriage?

 

 

Past and current marriage

 

1. Past of wedding

 

 South Korea has been very focused on tradition. In the past, marriage is by connecting the family with family, it has been a very important consideration. First, check the opponent's house, "consider fate" of the spouse to marry was also confirmed (Couple's compatibility). Apart from the personality and two hobbies, based on the date of birth, it confirmed the men and women of compatibility. If there is no good chemistry is, to the extent that the marriage has not been established, in the past compatibility has a significant impact on marriage established. Also, instead of promoting his own marriage, 'Matchmaker' (formerly wedding specialists) had instead. Past marriage followed the typical procedure of Confucianism.

Past issues of the wedding was too important a 'type' of Confucianism procedures. More than two people in love and harmony to marry and to found a family, It was more important to promote reconciliation between the family. If the chemistry is right, this marriage was also canceled. Complicated procedures for getting married was also a problem.

 

 

2. The current wedding

 

 Nowadays, unlike in the past and love yourself, and choose the person they want to marry. Autonomy has occurred in the selection of a spouse. If you decide to marry a relative, and the two greeted each other the house (Title: Sanggyeonrye). After that it will prepare the wedding. The importance and necessity of greatly decreased affinity than in the past.

 But the problem is that spending a lot of money to the wedding and honeymoon. Procedure of marriage became easy, but cost has increased.

 

 

Let's think together

 

Marriage of the rule has changed significantly between the past and the present. Because, the values of the people has changed. But I still think that the love of each other than the most important condition of marriage. But also it enriches marriage tailored to the conditions, and not think that happiness. Many people think the most important contemporary to 'money' as a condition of marriage. This is the biggest problem in modern marriage. But the more this time, I think we need to think about the true meaning of marriage once again.